This story I’m about to tell you is what happens when you open your heart and mind to having a miracle mindset.
Last week I decided to get super intentional about manifesting the life of my dreams in 2016. I sat down and wrote my “Ideal Life Narrative”. Basically I wrote down all the details of what I want for my life in the present tense. For me it’s like taking my vision board to another level by putting down words to go along with the pictures. I’ve done this in the past but what I didn’t do in the past was allow myself to feel the feelings associated with what I want for to create in my life.
Now this is kind of personal but if you’ve done my 21 Day Self-Care Challenge than we are friends because I revealed all kinds of personal stuff to show you how amazing life can be.
So part of what I wrote about in my “Ideal Life Narrative” is ……………….
“I’m in a committed relationship with an amazing man who is supportive of my curious nature and he loves exploring the world with me. He is spiritual, open minded, fun, adventurous and kind.”
Well to be honest I haven’t been in a relationship like that for years. You see about 4 ½ years ago I was engaged to the person I thought was “the one”. I thought I had hit the jackpot but he had other plans and they didn’t include me. I was devastated and angry and I decided to spend most of my time working on my business and myself and not get in another relationship.
The thought of committing to another man scared me. My heart was broken and inside I harbored extreme anger towards my ex-fiancé because things ended in a really ugly way.
So the fact that my ideal life includes a loving, committed relationship was and is still a big surprise for me because part of me didn’t believe it was possible to have what I truly want until this past Saturday.
If you read my last message which went out on Saturday the title was “An Amazing Way To Give Yourself Love On Valentine’s Day”. Well guess who responded to the message?? Yup the ex-fiancé. I had no idea he was on my mailing list let alone reading the messages I send out.
Now this isn’t the first time he has communicated with me but every other time I sent him a nasty response and told him to “bug off”, lose my info and just leave me the hell alone!!
There was something different this time. The anger was gone. I had softened my attitude towards him. All he said was “Thank you Gail” and I responded without anger. We messaged back and forth, I had an opportunity to receive answers to questions that had always been in the back of my mind and in the end what I said to him was “God works in mysterious ways! Now I have closure.”
So now this is where the magic begins!!!!
So the next day, which is Valentine’s Day I wake up early for an 8:00 a.m.appointment for a hair cut. I go get my haircut, run into my sister there (I had no idea she had an appointment too) and I head home deciding to stop at Whole Foods.
Whole Foods was off the chain there were so many people in there getting ready for their Valentine’s Day celebration. The lines were crazy long so I decided to sneak over to customer service and see if they will check me out since I only had a couple of items.
I’m standing there and out the corner of my eye I see this very handsome man walking towards me. He stands in line right behind me but I’m too busy reading about Oprah cleaning out her closet in OWN Magazine to really care. All of a sudden I hear this man say “Happy Valentine’s Day!”
I turn around to get a look at his face and say “thank you and Happy Valentine’s Day to you too!”
Pay attention because this is where the magic happens!
He says “make sure you give yourself some love today.” BAM!! I’m standing there in shock tripping because that is the exact thing I said in my email to our community the day before. I explained that to him and we proceeded to have a heartfelt conversation about how it was a confirmation from above and we discussed the importance of loving God and yourself before you can love anyone else. We continued to have a very pleasant conversation.
The entire time all I kept thinking is “God is good”! “God is Good!” I pay for my groceries and when I turn to leave he asked if I had a business card and stated that he would be in touch.
The next thing he said really caught me off guard. He asked for a hug! Can you believe that? Right in Whole Foods in line at customer service I’m hugging a complete stranger. I thought it was going to be one of those quick church hugs but when I went to back away with the quickness of a lady who has people to see, places to go and business to take care of he continued to hold me tightly in a caring way.
When we finally parted I walk out the store with a big smile on my face and all I kept repeating is “thank God for closure.” “God is good!” I truly believe that because I let go of the anger from my old relationship I am radiating a different type of energy towards men.
I haven’t heard from the man at Whole Foods yet and that’s not really the point. I feel he came into my life to show me that miracles are possible and that when you set an intention the spiritual wheels start turning and all we have to do is stay open to the miracles that occur in our lives and do the deep inner work.
Are you ready for the spiritual wheels to start turning in your life? Hit reply and tell me about what you want to manifest in 2016. I’d love to support you in holding the space for them to manifest.
In honor of love and miracles I decided that for the rest of the month of February I want to show our community some extra love by continuing the deep discount I’m offering on the 21 Day Self-Care Challenge Workbook. I created this program to help you discover the real you. It’s about taking your life to a new level through practicing self-care. The journey is to the bigger, bolder life that resides in you. The challenge is to think, feel, hear, see, smell, and touch what goes on in and around you in a deeper way; eyes wide open.
I’m doing this special promotion of more than 50% off of the workbook. Get it here==>21 Day Self-Care Challenge Workbook. Give yourself the gift of 21 daily assignments that you can go through at your own pace to finally start focusing on YOU in 2016. You never know you may set an intention to manifest a loving relationship in 2016 too!
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